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Archive for Parenting Tips

Apr
28

Banning Fast-Food Toys

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Here’s the summary paragraph from the New York Times article.

In what it described as a blow against the fattening temptations of fast food, the board of supervisors in Santa Clara County, south of San Francisco, voted Tuesday to ban the promotional toys that often accompany child-size portions of cheeseburgers and chicken nuggets if those meals don’t meet certain nutritional standards.

From my vantage point, this is absolutely ridiculous. Here are a few thoughts on the vote and one thought on the comment from the McDonald’s spokesperson.

1) These supervisors need more work.

The fact that fast-food toys even got a vote serves to show me that either everything is perfect in Santa Clara County or these people have way too much time on their hands.

2) Is this really something that should be addressed by a board of supervisors? And is it something they should be able to ban?

If a company wants to sell fatty foods and put toys in a box for children along with those fatty-foods, don’t they have a right to do so? It’s not like they are forcing children to eat the food or forcing parents to buy it for them. Which leads to point number 3.

3) Do the toys tempt children to such an extent that their parents cannot say, “No”?

This is the big question for me, because I am sure there are some parents behind this vote. And I just don’t understand it. If you don’t want your children getting fat off fatty foods, then don’t give them fatty foods. You have a choice not to eat fast food. Eating at McDonald’s or Wendy’s or wherever is not mandatory. I know many parents don’t realize this nowadays, but it is possible and wise and very good to often tell your children, “No.” The reality is that if your kid is obese, it is usually your fault as the parent. Not all the time I realize (the kid might have some sort of disease, etc.), but most of the time, yes. After all, you buy the food and monitor what and when your child eats. Or you don’t (which may be the problem).

How many people are under the impression that eating fast food is good for you anyhow? Sure, low-income families may eat that food more, but the reality is, eating out at fast food restaurants is, in the end, more expensive than going to the local grocery store and managing a simple list. So the argument that you are protecting low-income families from obesity is ridiculous. They still have a choice, to eat or not to eat. The parents can still say ‘No’ to both themselves and their children. Mr. Yeager, who interestingly enough doesn’t not have children, doesn’t seem to understand this.

4) A note to McDonald’s: Don’t try to defend the toys by telling us that your “Happy Meals provide many of the important nutrients that children need.”

That is just ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous. So your food has zinc, iron, calcium and some protein. It also has 30 percent of your daily intake of fat (for an adult by the way). Just face up to the fact that your food isn’t the most nutritious. Don’t act as if I am a moron and try to convince me that it’s ok to give my children this food because it has zinc. Come on.

When I head to McDonald’s or any other fast-food joint, I am well aware that the food isn’t the best for me or my children. That is why I head there rarely. It’s a special treat. So I would rather have McDonald’s or whoever say, “We know our food isn’t equal to fruits and veggies. I am the spokesperson for McDonald’s and I don’t eat there every day (and I eat for free). And neither should you or your children.”

That would be much more refreshing and actually might get me to make a trip for some happy meals sometime in the next six months.

As you can tell, I was a bit fired up by this vote. No. I am not headed to Santa Clara anytime soon for Happy Meals, but a vote such as this just seems to give greater excuses for poor parenting and more power to government officials to monitor what is good for us. If we don’t want McDonald’s giving toys along with bad food, we don’t need a council vote. We just need to stop buying the Happy Meals. Or at least I think so.

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Feb
25

True Stories? A Word to Parents

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The belief that the Bible is true is a basic one in our house. The dramatic difference such a belief has made in my life naturally leads me to want my children to believe it as well. It hit me the other day, however, that I have never exactly spelled this out for my children. Though we read the Bible consistently, review its numerous stories, and even memorize various passages of Scripture, I don’t often think to remind my children that the stories we are reading are absolutely true. It is so assumed that I am not apt to make it explicit.

Yet I think this is necessary. After all, the vast majority of stories my children read (through Erin and I most of the time of course), are not true. They are fanciful and even funny. Usually entertaining and engaging. But not real. Not true.

I thought of this while in the car with my oldest the other day (she is turning six next month). So I asked her, “Abby, you realize that all the stories we read in the Bible are different than the others you read, right?” She said, “What do you mean?” To which I replied, “I mean, they are true stories. They really happened. They are not just imaginative tales, but real people doing real things.”

Like most conversations with my children, it didn’t last much longer than that. We easily move forward to something else. But I believe it helped her tremendously. And I believe it is something I must return to consistently. Reminders of the Bible’s historical reliability certainly cannot hurt.

All the parents out there may have already known this for years, but if you have young ones like myself and haven’t thought to do this, check it out and let me know how they respond. And be sure to do so more than once.

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Dec
08

Christmas May Not Come?

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Around Christmas time, there are all sorts of Christians out there saying, “Don’t forget the reason for the season.” Probably so many of us are mentioning something along those lines that everyone gets a bit tired of it.  Some may say in response, “Come on, really, we know what Christmas is all about.  And can you please do without the cheesy rhyme?”  Then they tread off to Church for the Christmas Eve service in order to remember the real reason for the season (A side note:  when we were growing up, my brother and I used to call those who came to church only for Christmas Eve and Easter (the busiest church days no doubt), “Chrevesters”–no offense intended if you are one of them, but it is a funny memory for me).

And yet, I’m inclined to believe that very few families in America today really center their Christmas season on the birth of Jesus Christ (Christians included).  For as I have been finding it, it is rather difficult to do.  At the very least, it is something that takes effort.  Take, for example, the last two Christmas specials I have watched with my kids.  First, the classic, old-school ‘Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer.” Second, “Elmo’s Countdown to Christmas.”

I wouldn’t miss either one, but there was one, central common denominator to both shows that bothered me and, in my opinion, demanded explanation to my kids.  The common denominator?  That Christmas might not come unless….1)  Rudolph saves the day with his red nose or 2)  Mr. Ben Stiller Elf guy gets all the blocks for the countdown (it really was Ben Stiller and he was a funny elf in my opinion).

Most folks probably won’t think it is a very big deal, but there is a clear message being sent to everyone watching. And if you don’t think kids pick up on this message, you either don’t have them or don’t pay much attention to what they talk about most at Christmas.  The clear message is that Christmas isn’t really about Jesus Christ, but (probably) about all the traditions we enjoy , especially the one about Santa bringing all sorts of gifts we get to open and enjoy.

They are only two examples, but as television serves as a reflection of where we are and where we will be, I think that if you watch your tv carefully, you will recognize that very few folks out there center their Christmas upon the birth of Jesus Christ.  And if you think that only kids are affected, you are having difficulty seeing yourself. For though we adults might not get all warm and fuzzy over Santa, we do tend to celebrate Christmas for the Holiday’s sake, not Christ’s.  Notice even the language we use, “Celebrating the Holiday.”  How do you do that?

Some of you reading may not give a rip about what I just said, because you are content celebrating the holiday itself. That’s fine (in one sense).  But for those of you who profess faith in Christ, I believe that what I just said is worth reflecting upon.  Take a look at your traditions, your conversations, the general tenor and enthusiasm in your home.  Then ask yourself:  What are we really celebrating?

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