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My name is Joe Crispin and I am a Christian, a husband, a father, a professional basketball player, a reader, a talker, and now, a blogger. My life is unique; my God is good; my perspective is, I hope, encouraging and entertaining.

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Since I tend to move around a bit, I'll communicate my present blogging locale right here. I am currently enjoying my summer months (and of course still training) probably in State College, PA, but possibly in Glassboro, NJ.

Archive for Kids

Jun
13

Three Reasons for My Lack of Blogging

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First, Isaiah Sean Crispin, born May 15, 2010.  He is a cool little dude and our fourth child (now 6, 4, 2, and 1 month!), so we have been a busy Crispin crew in transition.  What a great transition it is though.  I praise the Lord for it.

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Second, my annual landscaping vacation.  I am serious about that.  Each year, after my season finishes, I head back to our home in NJ for a few weeks of outside work.  And it is a joy to my heart.  Another precious gift from the Lord.  Below is a picture of me putting a roof on the kids’ swing set.  I thankfully had help from my Dad, but did do most of the work.  In fact, there were a few days where I literally spent the entire day outside.  I was so immersed in my outside tasks that I didn’t come in (though I did stop for lunch outside with the family and was sure to play a few games with the kids as a break).  No time for blogging when you need to spread some mulch or complete the swing set.

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Third, the entire Crispin Crew made the move up to State College, PA and I began my off-season training.  I couldn’t find any picture that adequately conveyed that point, but oh well.  We purchased our home in SC last summer, but didn’t fully get settled in, so we have enjoyed getting settled.  And I have really enjoyed getting back to work.  Both Erin and I love it up here in State College.

I am sure I could come up with a few more excuses, but those are the primary ones to blame.  No doubt, I have thought about blogging a ton, but with all the different things I had to do, it didn’t climb up the priority list.  We’ll see how it goes from here.

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Apr
28

Banning Fast-Food Toys

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Here’s the summary paragraph from the New York Times article.

In what it described as a blow against the fattening temptations of fast food, the board of supervisors in Santa Clara County, south of San Francisco, voted Tuesday to ban the promotional toys that often accompany child-size portions of cheeseburgers and chicken nuggets if those meals don’t meet certain nutritional standards.

From my vantage point, this is absolutely ridiculous. Here are a few thoughts on the vote and one thought on the comment from the McDonald’s spokesperson.

1) These supervisors need more work.

The fact that fast-food toys even got a vote serves to show me that either everything is perfect in Santa Clara County or these people have way too much time on their hands.

2) Is this really something that should be addressed by a board of supervisors? And is it something they should be able to ban?

If a company wants to sell fatty foods and put toys in a box for children along with those fatty-foods, don’t they have a right to do so? It’s not like they are forcing children to eat the food or forcing parents to buy it for them. Which leads to point number 3.

3) Do the toys tempt children to such an extent that their parents cannot say, “No”?

This is the big question for me, because I am sure there are some parents behind this vote. And I just don’t understand it. If you don’t want your children getting fat off fatty foods, then don’t give them fatty foods. You have a choice not to eat fast food. Eating at McDonald’s or Wendy’s or wherever is not mandatory. I know many parents don’t realize this nowadays, but it is possible and wise and very good to often tell your children, “No.” The reality is that if your kid is obese, it is usually your fault as the parent. Not all the time I realize (the kid might have some sort of disease, etc.), but most of the time, yes. After all, you buy the food and monitor what and when your child eats. Or you don’t (which may be the problem).

How many people are under the impression that eating fast food is good for you anyhow? Sure, low-income families may eat that food more, but the reality is, eating out at fast food restaurants is, in the end, more expensive than going to the local grocery store and managing a simple list. So the argument that you are protecting low-income families from obesity is ridiculous. They still have a choice, to eat or not to eat. The parents can still say ‘No’ to both themselves and their children. Mr. Yeager, who interestingly enough doesn’t not have children, doesn’t seem to understand this.

4) A note to McDonald’s: Don’t try to defend the toys by telling us that your “Happy Meals provide many of the important nutrients that children need.”

That is just ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous. So your food has zinc, iron, calcium and some protein. It also has 30 percent of your daily intake of fat (for an adult by the way). Just face up to the fact that your food isn’t the most nutritious. Don’t act as if I am a moron and try to convince me that it’s ok to give my children this food because it has zinc. Come on.

When I head to McDonald’s or any other fast-food joint, I am well aware that the food isn’t the best for me or my children. That is why I head there rarely. It’s a special treat. So I would rather have McDonald’s or whoever say, “We know our food isn’t equal to fruits and veggies. I am the spokesperson for McDonald’s and I don’t eat there every day (and I eat for free). And neither should you or your children.”

That would be much more refreshing and actually might get me to make a trip for some happy meals sometime in the next six months.

As you can tell, I was a bit fired up by this vote. No. I am not headed to Santa Clara anytime soon for Happy Meals, but a vote such as this just seems to give greater excuses for poor parenting and more power to government officials to monitor what is good for us. If we don’t want McDonald’s giving toys along with bad food, we don’t need a council vote. We just need to stop buying the Happy Meals. Or at least I think so.

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Feb
25

True Stories? A Word to Parents

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The belief that the Bible is true is a basic one in our house. The dramatic difference such a belief has made in my life naturally leads me to want my children to believe it as well. It hit me the other day, however, that I have never exactly spelled this out for my children. Though we read the Bible consistently, review its numerous stories, and even memorize various passages of Scripture, I don’t often think to remind my children that the stories we are reading are absolutely true. It is so assumed that I am not apt to make it explicit.

Yet I think this is necessary. After all, the vast majority of stories my children read (through Erin and I most of the time of course), are not true. They are fanciful and even funny. Usually entertaining and engaging. But not real. Not true.

I thought of this while in the car with my oldest the other day (she is turning six next month). So I asked her, “Abby, you realize that all the stories we read in the Bible are different than the others you read, right?” She said, “What do you mean?” To which I replied, “I mean, they are true stories. They really happened. They are not just imaginative tales, but real people doing real things.”

Like most conversations with my children, it didn’t last much longer than that. We easily move forward to something else. But I believe it helped her tremendously. And I believe it is something I must return to consistently. Reminders of the Bible’s historical reliability certainly cannot hurt.

All the parents out there may have already known this for years, but if you have young ones like myself and haven’t thought to do this, check it out and let me know how they respond. And be sure to do so more than once.

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